The Art of Choosing the Right Gemstone
A right gemstone can truly transform your life — but choosing one is an art, not a formula.
I wish it were as simple as selecting stones from the 1st, 5th, or 9th favorable houses — yet, the universe doesn’t operate that way. Over the years, through countless experiments on myself, I’ve realized how uniquely each stone interacts with our energy.
For instance, being a Cancer ascendant, the ideal gemstone should have been Red Coral, the stone of Mars.
I wore it — and while it worked well in some ways — it did not bring the expected results. That’s when I learned: Gemstones are not merely planetary; they are energetic beings. They respond to your current vibration, karmic layers, and readiness for transformation.
Since 2018, I’ve noticed a pattern — I take a step forward, and others eventually follow.
When I first said that Lal Kitab is the book of pending karma, few understood.
Now, I see the same words being echoed everywhere. It takes time for the world to catch up with complex truths — and that’s perfectly fine. The universe unfolds wisdom in its own rhythm.
Gemstone for Depression and Self-Worth
When it comes to depression — an imbalance caused primarily by Saturn or Rahu — the planet that can counter this heaviness is Mars.
But here’s the key: you cannot simply wear Red Coral or Ruby without proper understanding.
The remedy lies in choosing a stone that revives your energy and restores your self-worth.
Self-worth is everything.
People who lack it often forget that it’s okay to be disliked, rejected, or misunderstood — what matters is staying true to your path.
Those who are comfortable being both loved and hated are the ones truly ready for success and recognition.
People-pleasers, on the other hand, lose respect, because they live for others’ moods rather than their own truth.
In my own journey, I’ve learned this deeply. When I decided to create my series, the idea was mine, the investment was mine, and the joy of creation was entirely mine.
While 99.9% appreciated it, the remaining 0.1% still found reasons to criticize.
Such people live in dissatisfaction and will always project it onto others.
The lesson? Block them energetically and move on.
To live this way — unapologetically and with strength — you need a powerful Sun and Mars within you.
The Power of Malachite — The Stone of Courage and Clarity
For such energy, the perfect gemstone is Malachite — a stone of pure Mars vibration, used since ancient times in China and Egypt, often engraved with the symbol of the Sun.
Malachite is formed from copper phosphate deposits, carrying the essence of both Mars (action) and Sun (power).
When set in a copper ring, it activates a unique current of vitality, focus, and protection.
Its rich green hue — born from copper’s natural reaction to air — mirrors the lush energy of life itself.
Wearing it responsibly can awaken dormant strength, dissolve self-doubt, and ignite personal power.
The Lesson of the Sun and Mars
Every stone works through discipline and awareness.
Gemstones of the Sun and Mars family, in particular, teach one profound lesson:
Boundaries are sacred.
The Sun teaches you to define your light — and not everyone will be comfortable with that.
Be ready to walk away from those who try to dim it.
Growth demands space, and you cannot evolve while staying bound by others’ expectations.
The truth is — most people want you to live life according to their comfort.
The moment you step out of that control, they react — sometimes with sarcasm, sometimes with anger.
When they say, “You’ve changed” or “You’re a big man now” — smile.
That’s not criticism; it’s confirmation that your light has become too strong to ignore.
Take it as a compliment.
You are no longer who you were — you are who you were always meant to be.
A being of energy, strength, and divine fire — guided by the Sun and Mars within.